Nature of love and marriage in The Duchess of Malfi



Love is a most important word in the world. It is the vital power in the whole world. It can not properly be defined in words. Yet we can say love is an “emotion explored in philosophy, religion and literature, often as either romantic love, the fraternal love of others or the love of God.” In Webster’s The Duchess of Malfi, there is a love affair between two persons of unequal ranks which paves the way for developing a lot of conflicts and bloodshed and revenge. Hence the nature of love and marriage of the Duchess towards the steward of the household may be treated as unusual to many other instances of love affair. A further discussion will clarify the idea.

In order to survive in the world, the human body requires to fulfill thirst, hunger and desires. Similarly human mind also needs some emotional requirements – Love, Compassion, Affection, Pity, Sympathy etc. Therefore it is very usual that the Duchess of Malfi will seek love from her lover. But the problem lies elsewhere – there are some social restrictions for her.
è Firstly, she is a widow. And a second marriage or offering love for a second time of a woman is not approved by her contemporary social and religious set up. For examples, her brother Ferdinand discourages her saying –
            “Marry! They are most luxurious
             Will wed twice.”
è Secondly, the Duchess is a woman of high rank and she lives in such a period which looks at the social hierarchy as something God-made. Therefore it is very much unusual and objectionable for the Duchess to love and marry such a man, the steward of her household who is below her own social rank.
èMoreover, the lower ranked people dare not offer their love to upper ranked people. So, if any of upper class people wants to make love with a lower class one, he or she themselves should be take initiative, as says the Duchess –
            “The misery of us that are born great!
              We are forced to woo, because none dare woo us;

However, it has been proved through ages that love does not obey any difference between nations, age or social ranks, and many like Helen, Cleopatra have made the examples of unusual love affairs. Hence, the Duchess of Malfi offers her love to a below ranked steward, disregarding all restrictions –
“I do here put off all vain ceremony and only do appear to you a young widow        that claims you for her husband and like a widow,  I use but half a blush in it.”

Finally she performs her marriage in an unusual manner and situation, and keeps it a secret. The result, as Antonio tells Delis, is that –
            “The common rabble do directly say
              she is a strumpet.”

Hence, though her love is, in these ways, unusual, it does not occur whimsically and it is unlike other accidental love affairs. Actually she has been a widow at her very young age, and being a woman of flesh and blood she has been in crying need of making a relationship with a male for the sake of her physical and mental thirst. In the text we can get many examples providing that the love of the Duchess is un-accidental.  

As we mentioned earlier, the Duchess, being a woman of higher rank and being restricted by her brothers will, cannot directly offer her love to Antonio. But she has largely felt the importance of a second marriage in her life, and has decided cold-headed to do that. However, to motivate Antonio, she makes ‘equivocal’ speeches and activities. She causes her ‘wedding-ring’, that can only be offered to her second husband, to touch his eyes which seems to be ‘blood-shot’, in order ‘to help’ his ‘eye-sight’ and to make him conscious that she wants him to be the second husband. Moreover, she wants Antonio uplift his position and so she ‘equivocates’-
            “This goodly Yoof of yours is too low built;
              I can not stand upright in’t nor discourse
              Without I raise it higher: raise yourself;
              Or you please, my hand to help you:”

Then Antorio, having been convinced and having asked about her brothers, the Duchess answers practically –
            “yet, should they know it, time will easily
              scatter the tempest.”

After that, as per decision taken earlier, she makes cariola a witness of their secret marriage which is justified with her speech –
            “I have heard lawyers say, a contract in a chamber
              per verba presents is absolute marriage.”

As a result of their secret marriage they fall in such a situation that they may any time be in horrible condition. Even at that time she assures –
            “whether I am doomed to live or die
             I can do both like a prince”
Hence, if she had accidentally loved Antonio, she must have become broken hearted in such a situation.

When Antonio and his son’s lives fall in danger, even at that time, the Duchess requests her husband to escape to Milan with her child and her wealth –
            Therefore by all my love I do conjure you
            To take your eldest son, and fly towards Milan
Let us not venture all this poor remainder
In one unlucky bottom.
How eagerly she thinks of her husband and the child without thinking of herself!

Bosola having advised her to forget Antonio by addressing him ‘one of no birth’, the Duchess confesses “that he was born mean” but
            ‘man is most happy when’s own actions
             be arguments and examples of his virtue.”
That is, the Duchess loves Antonio’s virtue rather than his identity.
In order to torture the Duchess mentally and change her view of her husband Antorio, Fardinand her brother, after showing her a dead man’s want arranges a show before her. There is shown “behind a traverse, the artificial figures of Antonio, and his children, appearing as if they were dead”. Seeing such a scene, she becomes mentally weak but her love for Antorio does not loose. She says that she “would account” it “mercy”, she says,
            “if they would bind me to that lifelen trunk
             and let me freeze to death.”

Further, Fardinand sends madmen and executioners with a coffin, cords and a bell to the Duchess with a view to making her frightened. But at the time of such a fearful moment, the Duchess does not loose the sense of her dignity. She says,
            “I am Duchess of Malfi still”
and
            “it affrights not me.”


And even at the time of her worst situation, when people can not generally think of others, she requests Cariola to bring up her children –
            “I pray thee, look thou giv’st my little boy
             some syrup for his cold, and let the girl
             say her prayers.
Thus, the Duchess of Malfi reminds us of the mother in the Riders to the Sea.

Moreover, in stead of having been strangled, the Duchess does not die fully. She survives again for a few moments, and her first and last word from her mouth is ‘Antorio’, her love.

Basing on the above discussion, we must say that the love of the Duchess is unusual to the accidental lovers. Her making love affair, treatment of love and consequence of it are also unusual. But her love is not like that of those who love whimsically without thinking much as an accident happens. She, however, in worst consequences of her love affair, does not become loose hearted and her love for Antonio does not decrease. Moreover, her thinking for her children, the fruits of her love, is no doubt praiseworthy.

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