John Donne’s Treatment of Love

Love, the most felt and discussed emotion of human mind, has been a dominant theme of all branches of literature of all ages. But the treatment of love has been different from writers to writers, from poets to poets. John Donne has also used ‘love’ to be an important theme of his poetry. Since love may be different from man to man, time to time, Donne has also treated realistically love to be different from one poem to others. Thus, it is not very easy to find out a simple definition of the love from Donne’s poems.

We find three main strands in Donne’s poems. The first is cynical attitude which is anti-woman and hostile to the fair sex. The second strand is of happy married life or of mutual love. The third is regarding supremacy of love with philosophical interpretation.

In the poems of first strand i.e. in the poems marked by cynicism and scorn, we see the poet’s contempt towards love itself and a gaiety and playfulness. For example, the poet begins ‘Go and Catch a Falling Star’ with an impossible imagery followed by many others only to prove the impossibility of discovering a true and faithful women,
                   ‘‘Go, and catch a falling star
                     Get with child a mandrake root’’
Since it is impossible to catch a falling star and to produce a child with mandrake root, it is also impossible to find ‘‘a woman true, and fair’’. The poet says,
                   ‘‘And swear
                     No where
                     Lives a woman true and fair’’
Thus we can get such examples also in ‘Woman’s Constancy’, ‘The Indifferent’, ‘The Apparition’ and ‘Loves Usury’.

The second group of poems upholds the simple, pure, mutual love and the best in conjugal love. Many of them are addressed to his wife Anne More. ‘The Anniversary’, written to celebrate the second anniversary of his weeding, gives a fine picture of domestic bliss. In ‘A Valediction: Forbidding Mourning’, a departing husband is arguing his wife not to tear, because his departure is not
          ‘‘a breach, but an expansion
          Like gold to aery thinness beat’’.
Their two souls are actually one, but
          ‘‘if they be two, they are two so
            As stiff twin compasses are two’’
Here the wife is the fixed foot while the husband is the moving foot who must return again to the fixed foot. In ‘The Sun Rising’ the poet says,
          ‘‘She’s is all states, and all princes, I,
            Nothing else is’’.
Here the lover does not know anything except his beloved.

As for the supremacy of love, the poet sometimes says that physical love is the best, elsewhere says spiritual love is the best and again says that spiritual love out of physical love is the best. In ‘‘The good Morrow,’’ the speaker says,
          ‘‘If ever any beauty I did see
            which I deserved, and got, was but
            a dream of thee’’
and,
          ‘‘If our two loves be one, or thou and I
          Love so alike, that none so slacken, non can die’’.
Here we see the supremacy of spiritual love.

In ‘‘The Cannonization’’, the speaker asks his friend to let them love each other without any interference, because they are not making any harm to the world. They have forsaken all the material world. The speaker urges that through their harmless physical love, they will be approved as canonized for love and regarded as saints of love. The speaker says,
          ‘‘And by these hymns, all shall approve
            Us cannonized for love.’’
Thus here physical love turns into spiritual appeal.
Another example of physical love’s being spiritual is that of ‘The Ecstasy’,
          ‘‘Loves mysteries in souls do grow
            But yet the body is his book’’